If you decide to cover up for others it
will complicate your life. Who do you cover for? Your friends? Those who have
authority over you? Or just anyone who asks? Do you cover up just the
little things or do you allow for big issues? Does a little cover up suck you
into a bigger one? What will you say when you get caught? What will you tell
your family when you are fired? All for what?
Someone else?
You don’t cover up because you don’t
lie, cheat or steal - nor tolerate those who do. It really is that simple. The
decision is an easy one – if you live by your success rules. People already
know where you stand. You’ve lived by these success rules and conducted your
life as such. If you are approached, be assertive and with confidence simply
say ‘No’. The first time may be difficult, awkward perhaps, however it
becomes easier and your reputation will be set in that you do not involve
yourself with these things.
Your challenge however will be dealing
with the emotional blackmail that often comes with your refusal to play their
game. This too is easier once you realize, simply by asking you, this person
does not have your best interest at heart.
Just remember, a real friend, and others
with extraordinary character such as yourself, won’t ask in the first place.
You’re Awesome. Be Extraordinary!
